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Transition to Teenagers:

• Evolution from focusing on boys to addressing teenagers.
• Importance of long-term perspective in parenting.

Philosophy of Parenting:

• Focus on the importance of relationships with adult children.
• Lessons learned from raising teenagers and transitioning to adulthood.
• Balancing Biblical principles with real-life application.

Importance of Relationships:

• Reflection on adult children being best friends.
• The significance of relationships over rules in parenting teens.
• Wisdom gained from experiences with their own teenagers.

Listening and Understanding:

• Transitioning from directive parenting to relational influence.
• Importance of active listening and understanding teenagers.
• Addressing the challenge of teenagers feeling unheard or misunderstood.

Parenting Approach:

• Shifting from enforcing rules to coaching and guiding.
• Examples of coaching moments during teenage years.
• Navigating the delicate balance of authority and relationship.

Handling Disrespect:

• Dealing with disrespectful behavior without damaging the relationship.
• The role of injustice in provoking teens and creating wedges.
• Emphasis on listening first and addressing behavior later.

Heart-Centered Parenting:

• The significance of addressing the heart, not just behavior.
• Navigating mistakes and using them as opportunities for growth.
• Using questions to understand the root of a teenager’s actions.

Apologizing as Parents:

• Importance of parents admitting mistakes and apologizing.
• Modeling repentance and forgiveness within the family.
• Demonstrating Christian values through humility.