Homeschooling Even When You Don’t Feel Like It

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By Jennifer A. Janes

It’s that time of year. The one where we got spoiled by having three weeks off for Christmas break and then promptly got sick the day we started doing lessons again. The sickness has cycled through the entire family, and I’m the last one to recover. This has been going on for a month now.

My children want to take all of these as sick days. We have done some “light” school days, but most days I have pressed through, making sure that our critical goals are reached each day and that we hit some of the other subjects and activities we usually do too. The girls don’t understand why I continue to push.

Homeschooling Even When You Don't Feel Like It

Here are the lessons I’m trying to teach by homeschooling even when I don’t feel like it:

Perseverance. Sometimes you just have to keep going, even when the circumstances aren’t optimal. My kids need to know this now. Life isn’t going to be perfect, but you have to keep doing what needs to be done.

Service. Homeschooling my children is a calling and an act of service—an outpouring of my love for them. When I choose to do what I know is best for them, to homeschool even when it’s not convenient, it sets an example for them. It’s important to do what’s right, even when it’s tough.

Time management. My kids like to take off June and July for summer break so we can enjoy the summer camps and other activities we participate in each year. If we’re going to finish our lessons by the end of May without having to double and triple up on them later in the spring, we need to keep working whenever possible.

Discipline. It is important for my children to see that having a routine and the discipline of getting up to do something worth doing is critical. Having the discipline of a daily routine will help them now and in the future, whether it involves spiritual disciplines like a daily quiet time or the task of getting to a job or ministry commitment regularly.

Responsibility. We have a responsibility, as Christians and a homeschooling family, to conduct our lives with integrity. We’re not perfect, but we do want to be good representatives of Christ and of the homeschooling community at large. We follow the local public school calendars loosely and keep good records of our attendance, lessons we’ve done, and field trips and educational opportunities we participate in. Our community is watching, and we want to be found faithful.

How do you keep momentum going in your homeschool—even when you don’t feel like it?

Jennifer A. Janes Teach Them Diligently Homeschool ConventionJennifer Janes lives in Arkansas with her husband and two daughters, one of whom has special needs. She spends her days homeschooling, reading her Bible, praying, sharing good books with the kids, and writing in blue ink. You can connect with her on her blog, Facebook, Twitter, and Google +. She also shares on Pinterest and Instagram.

  • http://www.momsmustardseeds.com/ Rebecca Brandt

    How do I keep going? I regroup, reduce the schedule a little and read a lot to the children. If I am sick, I still have to care for them, no one can really help, but they are learning to help. If one of them is sick, we pretty much do the same thing. Thank you for this great post of encouragement!

    • http://twitter.com/jenniferajanes Jennifer A. Janes

      Great tips, Rebecca! We do “light” days too when someone is really sick. Sometimes spending the day snuggling and reading aloud is called for. It’s hard when you don’t have a lot of help. You do a great job!

  • http://www.facebook.com/lauren.servingfromhome Lauren Servingfromhome

    Keep on keeping on! Take a nap, rework the schedule, drop an activity until we get back on our feet. Spend time reading, or even take a day off. I like how you keep on teaching character and discipline during those times, that’s probably the most important!

    • http://twitter.com/jenniferajanes Jennifer A. Janes

      Yes, Lauren! You’re so right about the need to make adjustments during times of illness. I struggle to keep character and discipline a priority in our homeschool (starting with me!). Those are critical skills for happy lives!

  • http://www.facebook.com/kelli.miller Kelli Moody Miller

    We regroup, we read books, watch educational video’s, play educational games, do fun learning boardgames, or do only extracurricular stuff that day like sewing or art. When mommy is practically comatose, since my littles are so young right now, we tend to draw, color, read, or watch educational videos. Jennifer, this is such an inspiring post. For where there is perseverance, there is character, and with character there is hope. We all need hope!

    • http://twitter.com/jenniferajanes Jennifer A. Janes

      Thank you, Kelli! We do need hope. I am trying very hard to teach my children virtues that will carry them through life with integrity!

  • Becca & David Nelson

    YES! I love this article. It was hard for me to learn as an adult when you’re sick you still have to go to work and as a SAHM no one does your job for you. We keep pushing, too, so thank you for articulating why for me. We keep momentum going by doing what we can. If we hit on 4 of 6 subjects, that’s fine. Most often I’m impressed with how much we were able to do. I also expand loved subjects on those days and that helps, too.

    • http://twitter.com/jenniferajanes Jennifer A. Janes

      It really is impressive how much we can get done on the “light” days, especially when we pursue subjects that are high-interest! Those are great ideas for pushing through!

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100005513560982 Facebook User

    Oh How I needed this post! Sometimes you just need a little pick-me-up….thanks for the lift ;)

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